Sorry no pic no reply. My life is stable. I prefer NONSMOKER with an established life. I don't date younger than 45. That's because I have sons well in their 30s. I interact best If we can focus on getting to know one another and share our interests. I have an old School thought process. So we won't need interact if that's not okay with you. I like the process of going on planned dates to see what is possible. Spontaneous is fun, but I especially love when he does the planning or I can suggest with his parameters. Operative word is D A T E people. If our distance is a problem - I thank you for reading my comments. Physicality is like flavors. I think everyone has a preference. I consider grooming and prefer good lines or none. Weight is a matter of health to me so fitness matters. I love a bow tie!